To
what extent do you:
Great
extent
Some
extent
Small
extent
Very
little
Stay
focused on what the person speaking to you
is saying rather than rehearsing your response?
Enjoy
exploring different ways of looking at the
same issue?
Turn
off phones, laptops, the TV, etc. and all
distractions when meeting/talking with people?
Consider
everyone your equal as a thinker?
Stay
aware of your reactions at a feeling level
to whatever is being said to you?
Share
as much accurate information as you have
to support the thinking those around you?
Take
control of your time and energies so that
you are not unduly rushed?
Operate
on the basis that 'better than' does not
necessarily mean 'best'?
Treat
feelings as facts requiring serious consideration?
Refrain
from telling people what to do and how to
do it?
Ask
more questions of people than you offer
solutions when they have a problem to solve?
Ensure
that the people around you get an equal
opportunity to speak?
Seek
the views of people from different fields
or backgrounds before making important decisions?
Encourage
others to consider alternative possibilities
in their thinking?
Take
time to think as a matter of course?
Tell
the people around you what you appreciate
about them?
Express
your feelings about issues as well as what
you think?
Keep
your eyes on the person who is speaking
Ensure
that decisions are made on the basis of
what is known to be true?
Make
a conscious effort to rearrange your physical
surroundings to make them more conducive
to relaxed thinking?
Encourage
others to be themselves and not to conform
to your way of doing things?
Challenge
others to question their own assumptions?
Look
for ways to build the confidence and self
esteem of those around you?
Maintain
your confidence in the presence of people
in authority or more senior than you?
Remain mindful of your own physical comfort
needs when meeting others?
Allow
people to finish their own sentences rather
than jumping in to finish them on their
behalf?
Tend
to notice what is already good in a situation
as well as what could be improved?
Recognise
and attempt to minimise competitive behaviour
between friends and colleagues?
Hold
back from trying to solve other peoples'
problems?
Encourage
others to challenge your point of view?
Actively
encourage others to say what they really
think?
Make
time for others when they need to talk?
Express
thanks, both written and verbal, at every
opportunity?
Ask
'what if' questions of the people around
you?
Ensure
that you do not interrupt others when they
are speaking?
Take
conscious steps to maintain a relaxed presence?
Make
a conscious effort to ensure that your position/authority/grade
does not stop others from telling you what
they really think?
Consider
other peoples' physical comfort as important
when they are with you?
Remain
calm and relaxed when someone is openly
expressing how they are feeling?
Look
for the strengths in those around you rather
than the weaknesses?